Friday, December 5, 2008

Basic people skills

成功是对一个有价值的梦想的逐步实现的过程,成功远远不止是金钱,它与人际关系息息相关。如果没有强大、愉快、丰富的人际关系。世界上所有金钱都不足以缓解痛苦。
Contents:
1-Employ a wide range of skills in conversation.
Remember that only talk to them about their things.
FORM:
Family
Occupation=job or work
Recreation=entertainment
Money,eg:where you want to travel?

When you talk of themself,they will respect you right away.Most of us don't get well with others ,because we always think and talk about ourselves.

2-We should show respect for everybody.
a.Learn to listen very carefully
b.Not to cut in on the conversation
c.Ask subjects which they are interested in.
d.To talk together in a friendly,leisurely way.

Looks best to appear
a.put a stop to untidy.
b.in a good mood and appearance.

praise peope:the power of highly praise.
a.when you meet with stangers,making eye-contact with him and smiling him.
b.develop a good habit of shaking hands.
c.pay attention to your communication skills ,especially electrommunication skills,what you build is not only business,but aslo interpersonal relationship.
d.appreciation is the most sincere generous.
e.remember other's name and use it.
f.keep your financial credit in good condition.
g.understand and appreciate different personalities of people.the more you understand others,the happier you will feel,and you will have a solid foundation for you to improve your communication skills.

how to win respect?the first step is to respect others first,the more you respect others,the more others will respect you.self-esteem is the bottom line,everyone is special.

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